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I Like My Food Fun

(I forgot to add to my I’m so busy post –NCAA Gymnastics. Finals were last weekend so that’s mostly off my list although there are a few semi-final meets I hope to still get to. With streaming there is access to almost everything including the smaller schools so it’s a lot but I love it.)

Seriously: watch this beam routine. Mute the sound. Because of the way the meet went, she was the last performer and got a standing ovation and a 9.9625 for this amazing, amazing routine:

I have loved Kinder chocolate since my first visit to Germany as a little girl and that hasn’t changed. I bought this bag of cookies because I thought it was funny that they were advertised as crunchy and fun.

They were.

Likewise these mini ice cream sandwiches described as “always irresistible.”

I love all the mini ice cream treats available now. I love something sweet after dinner but often just a bite or two is enough. These are perfect.

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Where Have I Been?

Spring flowers in the front yard

Pardon me for being a broken record but everything remains busy. I seem perpetually frazzled and lurching from one chore to the next, just trying to keep up. When I finally have time, I don’t want to sit at the computer. Although I am writing — it’s not going great or super productive but it’s happening little by little.

I haven’t updated it in a while but I have been reading more than usual. Books read here. I just started a book called The Terror by Dan Simmons which is 784 pages long — I didn’t realize that when I started it. Looks like it’s a TV series, too. It’s an account of the 1845 Franklin Expedition searching for the Northwest Passage and the author has taken an already terrifying story and added a horror element. It’s excellent so far.

I have a tiny window for yard work today, I’ve already deleted a number of things from my list, and I’m still not out there.

Here are the garden beds. This was about a week ago. Things have progressed much since then. I already have greens for harvesting.

We helped out the neighborhood Easter egg hunt. We stuffed eggs with candy and tickets. On the day we helped get things set up. There was a nice turnout with tons of kids and perfect weather. It was super fun.

Living dangerously and not proofreading!

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From the Notes Scattered Around My Desk

(1) This is the Klamath River from March 2025. They got a lot of rain before I arrived and more rain as I was arriving. I don’t know all the science of hydrology and when rivers hit max but this was about the time it was peaking. Fast and muddy and all the rocks underwater.

(2) No photo: The other night we came home just after dark and there was a tiny creature zooming across the street and then along the curb. What is that? And as we drove by I could see it was a tiny bunny! Obviously, I was thrilled. I went out several times to see if I could see another tiny bunny but generally the only bunny I see is the big brown one who occasionally comes out when I am in the yard.

(3) I was visiting my dad at the retirement home on a lovely day. I took him outside so we could enjoy the sunshine and one of his friends came by on his motorized scooter. He told us that management announced there was a speed limit for scooters and it was set at 8 mph. ME: Isn’t kind of fast? HIM: Yes, it’s fast. I went and asked them about that and they said it was 8 mph.

8 mph isn’t fast for a car but for a guy in the hallway of a retirement home where almost everyone uses some kind of cane or walker, it seems kinda fast. We’ll see how it works out.

(4) Hurtle is a word.

The first time I saw hurtle written out, I thought it was a mistake. The word is hurdle. I looked it up so I could feel smug and correct and I was not. They are both words with meaning that could be confused. Hurtle means “move with great speed or to throw with great force.” Hurdle is like the sport. Hurdling is running and jumping over an obstacle.

(5) If you need a show recommendation and you haven’t started The Pitt on HBO yet — get to it. It’s great.

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Are You The Lady of the House

I had to grab the camera card out of my “real” camera and it already had photos on it. These are from last year. There are daffodils out there now but just a few.

A couple of weekends ago someone came to the door to sell us something.

As an aside: wasn’t that one great thing about the pandemic is no door-to-door salespeople?

When I opened the door they asked if I was the lady of the house.

In the moment I didn’t think much of it but since then it makes me laugh every time I think of it.

What does that even mean? Am I the homeowner? Do I made the decisions? Maybe she thought I was the butler and needed to go find the lady?

Any minute the never ending parade of exterminator companies should be starting. OOF. There is no reward for being polite. Last year I had a guy and no matter what I said, he had a reply. At one point I think he assured me that their service would only kill the pests I wanted to kill. AMAZING!

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Old Friends Have Returned

I was just thinking that we haven’t seen a Skunky in the yard for quite some time when this image popped up, the last one on the card.

I wonder where he’s set up. I don’t think he lives in our yard. Sheesh, I hope not. There’s a dog next door so not there. I wonder how much the average skunk gets around — like, is he in a nearby yard or does he cover some ground at night?

Ditto for the coyote. I have only caught a coyote on camera a couple of times so I was surprised by this clip. But bunnies are in our yard almost every night so I’m guessing that’s the appeal.

Mostly the camera is raccoons, opossums, bunnies, and cats.

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A Little Ice Bucket

This is the ice I tipped out of the bucket. It lasted for a long time but it’s gone now.

I missed last week! I kept thinking I could get to it on a weeknight but also I try to stay off the computer when I get home from work.

It seems like just about the time I get started I get interrupted for dinner or else my brain can’t do anymore computer things.

Also I got a new computer which I am still in the process of setting up and adjusting to my ways of working.

I did not update my operating system for years and was still using Catalina (10.15) which was from 2019. My new machine uses OS 15 and has changed a lot. I’m fine with change but every single thing I do requires at least three extra steps and after while I want to jump out the window.

I haven’t had time to dig in and learn the new OS. I’ve said this before but I hope I live long enough for all the tech-bro people to get older and realize how hard it is to completely relearn something every year.

Obviously my Photoshop was outdated, too, and now I have the most up-to-date version of that.

Every app and plug-in is begging me to use AI when I don’t want to. I can compose an email thank you very much. But when I want AI to help me with photoshop it’s still the 1972 version of help. I was kinda pulling my hair out just getting these photos up and cropped.

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A Little Icy

After a few cold nights the bucket turns into a block of ice. I pulled the ice block out and refilled it but its a block of ice again.

Plus it really needs to be cleaned out and I can’t deal with it right now.

In the last few years I have said that January is my favorite month. It’s kind of embarrassing but I love that there are no holidays. It’s full winter so there are few activities. You don’t have to work in the yard. It’s nice to have a month to sit inside and read books and drink hot chocolate and not have to go anywhere.

I like how this guy is figure skating. The ice is very confusing to these critters.

I had notes for a post and I don’t know what happened to them and now I am a big blank.

I don’t think I wrote about my failed sweet potato pie for xmas dinner. It was edible but it wasn’t very delicious. It tasted like a vegetable side dish that someone poured sugar on and added to a pie crust. Everyone was very polite about it and said things like, “Good Pie” and “C’mon, do you ever make a pie that you think is good?”

Yes, I do. I’d made an amazing apple pie a couple weeks earlier. This was a failed pie.

While discussing with a friend and telling her I couldn’t figure out what I did wrong — she easily figured it out. I used the wrong kind of sweet potatoes. I’ve only made it a handful of times over the last many years and I’m not sure if I knew in the beginning which sweet potatoes to use or I just lucked out.

I made another pie today and it looks a lot better but I won’t be sure until we try it.

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5 Favorite Episodes

I don’t really do any of the year lists anymore or even take the time to think of my favorite [blank] from the year before. But I was thinking of episodes of TV shows that I really enjoyed recently — more than just in the last year.

1. The Bear, Season 2, Episode 4 “Honeydew”

This is the one where Marcus goes to Copenhagen even though he’s concerned about his sick mother. It is so quiet and lovely in the midst of a show with a lot of chaotic episodes. I already loved this character and this made me love him more.

2. The Bear, Season 3, Episode 6 “Napkins”

Like my favorite above, this episode focuses on a more side character Tina. And this is a flashback episode that tells her story and how she ended up part of the Original Beef. Tina starts off, pre-beef, in a really great place and as the episode develops she goes through some terrible disappointment and humiliation and she manages it with so much dignity until she can’t. So much heart in this story.

3. Only Murders in the Building, Season 4, Episode 7 “Valley of the Dolls”

In a series with tons of terrific characters and performances, nothing comes close Charles’ sister Doreen played by Melissa McCarthy. Doreen develops a crush on Oliver and every scene is a hilarious surprise. Even if you don’t watch this show I think you should watch this episode.

4. Severance, Season 1, Episode 9 “The We We Are”

This aired in 2022 but it is a favorite TV episode. Every story thread has a super high stakes thing happening — all at the same time. It is an exhilarating hour of TV.

We need to re-up Apple TV because we cancelled it when we realized how much we were spending on TV. Meanwhile, we also somehow cancelled all the channels I use to watch NCAA gymnastics and now we have to add that stuff back, too. They don’t make it easy for you to save money on TV, do they?

5. I don’t have a fifth episode.

I thought I would think of another one as I worked on my list but no. I have a lot of shows I enjoyed last year but can’t think of a particular episode that is sticking out for me right this second.

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Misheard Lyrics: Nights Are Forever

There’s a documentary on HBO called Yacht Rock: A Dockumentary.

Trailer: here.

It’s about a style of music from the late 70s, early 80s that has come to be known as Yacht Rock. If you ever listened to Toto, Michael McDonald, Kenny Loggins or Christopher Cross — you do not want to miss this. Bob wanted me to watch it and I was really annoyed and ended up loving it and now I’m telling everyone in my peer group to drop everything and check it out.

It’s great nostalgia. It’s super interesting. The musicians are charming onscreen.

One hilarious moment came during a part when they played England Dan & John Ford Coley “I’d Really Love to See You Tonight.”

Bob and I watch TV with closed captions on all the time. They sang the chorus which starts, “I’m not talking about movin’in, And I don’t want to change your life.”

Bob: Stop! Stop and go back. Misheard lyrics.

And I was thinking the same thing.

If you know the song, it doesn’t sound like “I’m not talking about movin’ in” — it sounds something like, “I’m not talking about millennia.”

Does that make sense? Does it have to? It’s a misheard lyric.

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A Leopard Cannot Change Its Spots

This one is a little bit hard to see but the raccoon was hilariously playing with the hose. I was a little worried about the hose when I saw the clip but I did a close inspection and it was fine. It’s a pretty nice hose so either it was built to withstand raccoon teeth or the raccoon wasn’t trying to destroy it.

I had the feeders down over the summer but put them back up in the fall. It’s especially active out there now. More than once I have seen a cat wander through. I think they like to troll the birds. Sometimes they sit under the feeder and relax like little jerks.

The other morning I was sipping my hot chocolate and went to look out over the activity but instead of birds, there was Noah the cat, sitting under the feeder. A little bird stopped to checkout the fly-through feeder and 1-2 pounce! And my little guest was caught. Noah took his prey and scooted back over the fence to his house.

I was very sad. I never saw the cats actually going after the birds so this feather-shed was upsetting. But also: nature, baby.

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